black self help

Why so much hatred it a euphemism with some Black people?
What I mean is that if we deny that you are an expression of race and racism toward its own people, did not like what the race becomes an enemy himself. Why does this apply to Black people love who they are, of their culture and do not endorse or associate with certain black people based on their non-race? Have you heard people call the blacks hate himself for the opposite reason to be an enemy the same?
Good question, I think the answer is yes, but mostly because I think some people have not reached the point where they can understand that being proud of my color / culture / heritage is not even the two are exclusive of each other – culture and race and character are not synonymous with each other, and many people (with in our culture, black culture that is) have not reached the point where they are willing to separate the two and accept criticism and exclusively separately, especially from outsiders And when it comes to our community there is a suspicion that we have exhausted or have forgotten the suffering of our people. It is a crutch and something that is working their way out, but only if they are frightened and allow people to intimidate us into thinking or believing that we are not proud of who we are and that is why it is a slow process. Many people do not like being called names and have no self-esteem to push through the lies and intimidation. But it takes one to change the world
MONTEL AND BERNIE MAC HELP A SELF HATING BLACK GIRL